If you have a child, if you ever will, of if you give a shit about this community/society/ Country, then listen up.
We have to do better as the current generation. We HAVE to grab a hold of our balls and get ready to step up to the plate. We have to change how we define success. WE have to change how we work. We have to take responsibility for our actions.
Success is not buying the next Jordans, or fucking the prettiest girl, or bagging the most muscular guys. Success is not working 60 hours per week to afford a big house that we don’t need. Success is not having gold teeth, 24 inch rims, or a Mercedes. Success is not material wealth or fame! Success is not peer pressure! Success is not booz, gambling, or drugs. It is not the job we do that makes us money, or the things we buy.
WE are defined by what we do, and what we say.
Success is being a betterment to the world and to your family. Success is love! Success is life, liberty, freedom, and living how you want. Success is knowing 100% what you believe and proving it through your everyday actions.
How can we expect a brighter future when we are living for what we have instead of being what we want? How can we expect our children to be the future when we have only taught them about how to act with our horrible past? How can we do better?
I am going to tell you real quick!
Instead of making the joy of your life your work or your “things”, enjoy the moments with your kids and raise them right. Try to live off of one provider, and instead of paying child care or expecting public schools to raise your kids, give them your attention and read to them and show them how to have fun while learning! Instead of thinking about WHAT you mean to men and women that only want you for sex and enjoyment, focus on the life that your child is going to live in the future. Instead of thinking about yourself and having “fun”, think about how your kids are going to mimic you when they grow up.
If you are working all day, then go out at night, if you have multiple partners, or are mean to the ones that you do have, DO NOT BE surprised when your kid starts acting out.
If you want your kids to question other’s authority, let them question yours! If you want them to be mindless ants that just follow orders, then that is what you have to do too!
IF you do not want your kid to be a liar, then don’t lie to them. Don’t tell them that something exist if you don’t think it does. Don’t tell them not to hit, if you are going to hit them. Don’t tell them to be good if you are being bad. Don’t tell them to try harder if you are too weak to stand up for them or yourselves.
In general, don’t be a fucking hypocrite to your kids, or you will have no one to blame but yourselves. If you can look in the mirror and say “I did my 200% best, and never lied to that little guy/gal” then they go and fuck up, then it is all on them and not on you, but I hope you are correct.
Be a man and step up and be a fucking father.
Be a woman and step up and be a Mother.
Stop sleeping with people because it makes you feel good. You look stupid.
Stop gambling with your kids welfare, stop drugging yourself to sleep, and stop looking for someone else to handle your business.
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Continue if you are not offended. But delete me if you are.
I feel sick to my stomach about the direction of the country. What do we think would happen? Take this quote for example:
“A culture of arrogance created a group mindset of debauchery and disrespect, of misplaced manhood and lost morality.”
This is rampant in all of our communities!
Taken from the synapses of the Steubenville Rape case via Yahoo, found here:
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Feel free not to read the rest if you don’t want. I don’t care about responses, and I may not even entertain them. I am only writing directly from my mind, and admittedly with reckless abandon for your feelings or concerns. I have not/will not edit it, and care less about hurting feelings. I am growing weary of our hypocritical attitudes and nature.
We live in a country where the standard of right and wrong is our own whims. We forget to teach our children about liberty and virtue, about freedom and respect, and we expect them to act appropriately to others? What the fuck do you expect a kid to do when his father had no respect for his mother to stay around and help raise him with her. WTF do you think will happen when 40% of a sub cultures fathers are in jail for the majority of their kids lives? WTF did you expect when you outlaw vices, because they don’t provide tax revenues and aren’t seen positively by the few, without targeting the ports they come in? What the fuck do you expect when the child grew up in an environment where sports were more profoundly important than a woman’s life and health. What the fuck do you expect in a HUGE community where the individual, with responsibility to act in accordance to his/ her ideals, acts as if the whole damn world owes him/her something. We all expect LAWS to fix what an education in basic humanness should. It took a whole community of people with eyes-wide-shut for this to happen, and sadly this happens in every community, including the one where I grew up.
We have a problem. It is evident to see that most of the youths involved in this incident did not see a thing wrong with what is clearly rape. None of them understood what consent means, and indeed they do not value it in their current state. But what do we expect? We live in a society where the minority or the majority thinks it is Moral and just to force another group to do as they please. Individuals in our society are not expected to know what is good for them on an individual level, and therefore are not respected enough to be allowed to make their own decisions. Laws are created which should not be laws, and have terrible unexplainable consequences. The group that is seen as the “wrong” group starts to be the jail group and privilege protects an entire different group.
We want our youth to make the right choice, while simultaneously the adults parade around town shrugging their responsibilities off at the drop of the hat. Instead of teaching and reading to the children, showing them what is important, taking the time to educate and grow the mind, we expect BIG Daddy government to build a child from scratch. You expect TV to educate on how to treat another, while working overtime to buy the kid new shoes to wear to school?
I have seen so much in this country that is worth standing up for, and there needs to be some call to action. Something has to give because we are going down hill fast, and soon we will be up shits creek, paddle or not. Instead of creating new laws to govern the lives of men, put more time and effort in educating what is a fair and balanced way to live. Instead of trying to control the whole world, while pushing your moral superiority, accept that everyone has their way. Instead of suffocating rights and freedom in return for protection, take responsibility and use the liberty that is God given in order to live a better and real life. Instead expecting Obama, or Bush, or anybody else to make things right, do it yourself and stand up for what you believe in.
Teach the boys to love their mothers and other woman, and teach them about the virtues of promoting life, promoting freedom (from any slavery or coercion), while promoting happiness (as defined by each individual).
Teach the girls the same, but teach them that they are more than sex objects. Teach them that the world is dangerous and that they are to learn how to protect themselves as well, and that they do not NEED to seek a man/boy to protect them.
“Do you begin to see, then, what kind of world we are creating? It is the exact opposite of the stupid hedonistic Utopias that the old reformers imagined. A world of fear and treachery and torment, a world of trampling and being trampled upon, a world which will grow not less but more merciless as it refines itself. Progress in our world will be progress toward more pain.” George Orwell, 1984
Fuck you if you don’t make the world a better place, regardless of how you define that. But don’t worry, if you keep doing what you are doing eventually people like me will do your work for you.
If you want to know what the Truth is, then you must ask for it. Who is better at providing the Truth than the one who has created it. "Arise and Deliver thy warning"
